How to write a children’s story with your child

By TaleBuilder,

Kids are full of story. What they lack is structure, and structure is the part a grown-up can supply without taking over. The method below works at the kitchen table with a pencil, in a notes app, or in any story tool. It takes about twenty minutes the first time and gets faster.

The only rule: your child makes the choices. You ask the questions and write down the answers.

1. Choose a hero

Ask: “Who is this story about?” Accept the first answer. It can be your child, the dog, a purple truck, or a potato. Then ask two more questions so the hero is specific:

  • What does the hero love?
  • What is the hero bad at?

“A girl named Mia who loves climbing and is bad at waiting” is a hero you can write about. “A girl” is not. Write the answers at the top of the page.

2. Give the hero a problem

A story starts when something goes wrong. Ask: “What does the hero want, and what is in the way?” Small problems work better than big ones for young kids. Lost mittens, a birthday party the hero was not invited to, a tower that keeps falling down, a cat that will not come inside. If your child offers a huge problem (“the whole world is on fire”), say yes and then ask what the hero’s small part of it is.

Write the problem in one sentence. This becomes page one or two.

3. Three tries

This is the step most home-made stories skip, and it is the step that makes a story feel like a story. The hero tries to solve the problem and fails, tries again and fails, and tries a third time. Ask three times: “What does she try? Does it work? Why not?”

Each try is one page. Let the failures get bigger or sillier. The first try should be the obvious one (call the cat). The second is a bit cleverer (shake the treat bag). The third goes a little wrong (climb the tree after the cat and get stuck too). Kids love the third one; it is usually where they start laughing.

4. The fix

Now the hero solves it, and the solution should use something you already set up. If the hero loves climbing, climbing is the answer. If the hero is bad at waiting, maybe the fix is finally waiting. Ask: “What does she know how to do that nobody else in the story does?”

If your child cannot think of a fix, go back to step one and look at the answers. The fix is nearly always sitting there.

5. The ending

One page. The problem is gone, and something is a little different from page one. Ask: “What does the hero do now that it is over?” Endings that show the hero doing the ordinary thing they wanted all along (eating dinner with the cat on her lap) land better than endings that explain the lesson.

Read the whole thing out loud. Your child will spot the boring page. Cut it or give it a try that fails.

Matching the words to your reader

If your child will be reading the book rather than listening to it, the sentences need to fit their level. A useful reference is the guided reading scale that schools use, where levels run from A (kindergarten) up through the grades. Roughly:

  • Levels A to C (kindergarten): sentences of two to five words, one action per page, pictures that show exactly what the words say. “Mia looks up. The cat is up high.”
  • Levels D to I (grade 1): four to seven words per sentence, two to four sentences a page, simple dialogue with “said” and “asked,” a clear problem and solution.
  • Levels J to M (grade 2): compound sentences, three to five per page, character feelings shown through actions, a few descriptive words.
  • Levels N to P (grade 3): longer sentences with clauses, four to six per page, some figurative language, a subplot if the story wants one.
  • Levels Q and up (grades 4 and 5): five to eight sentences a page, richer vocabulary, plot twists and inner thoughts.

You do not need to be exact. Write the story at your child’s natural speaking level first, then trim words per sentence until it looks like the books coming home in their backpack. For a book they will read to you, err one level easier than you think; fluency is more fun than struggle.

Adding pictures

A picture book needs about one image per page, and the same hero on every one. If your child draws, let them draw the hero once on a separate sheet, then trace or copy it for each page so it stays recognizable. If you are using photos, pick one clear photo and reuse it. Consistency matters more than skill.

How TaleBuilder does it

TaleBuilder follows the same shape. You describe the hero in words or upload a photo (a group photo works for several kids at once), pick a reading level from A to Z, choose an art style, and answer the same kinds of questions above. It writes and illustrates ten pages plus a title page and back cover, keeps the hero’s look consistent from page to page, adds a short list of vocabulary words with definitions, and lets you revise any page you do not like. New accounts get one story free.

Whichever way you make it, keep the pages. A story your child wrote at six is worth more at sixteen.

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